Not in a bad way though. This woman matched all of his criteria (tall, slim & fair). GOD-awful!! 12th house is not the greatest for expression i am afraid. My gemini sun, cancer north node are in my 12th. In synastry when people impact this house, there is often sort of confessional that occurs. Someone help Ive done so much research on this but I was with this guy for like a year and then he ghosted me, disappeared deleted all social media, but I still dream about him and think about him frequently and its been 3 years. Be direct, ask questions, dig deep, ask for proof and confirmation. They may feel a strong sense of familiarity or a deep emotional bond that is difficult to explain. I've never felt such a connection before, the passion too. But all of my life I have been in the habit of TWOISMS . I feel like a complete different being since I met him. When Im with him its like everything else in the world just melts away. Without knowing of his opposite actions that indicate his interest in you, its hard to weigh this and determine what the deal is. We started off some kind of bizar friendship in where I felt like a teacher towards a child, I always pulling, he always coming towards me, and then everytime when he came, he ran away, literally, like he got burned or something. Even when on partner likes the other one partner would not want to be seen with the other person for whatever reasons as in maybe wanting to keep their option open; definitely a "behind the scenes" situation. I was more into him from the very beginning I went after HIM and found out that he really resented it. Im not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. Are Venus Pluto Contacts In Synastry Problematic? A example of how the hidden fears thing of this house works is that we often will have a bad dream about something we are afraid of happening or suppressed anger, and and fear can bring us nightmares. I wish you luck in dealing with your guy; maybe it will turn out sweeter than what I went through. I also cant tell you, definitively, how theyre experienced by the person who has their twelfth house activated. Well, your handle actually matches his Cancer placements, as the Keywords for Cancer is I FEEL, and that is the key to him. I find myself questioning him all the time, whether or not I believe him or believe what he says. Im more of a silent reader but this one hit home, so I ll share my two cents. I can not understand entirely the situation just based on those aspects there is a lot to Astrology I would need to see all the charts in order to properly comment any further. So, know that their insecurities and feelings may get in the way of connective relationships. You will not regret it. He told me he loved me so many times and then took it back, and he told me there are things he needs to work through. It's as if nither of us are ready to let go fully. Someone may be misinterpreting something. Although my guy is very vulnerable with me as well, he is still more controlled than I, in the sharing of deeper things (probably his Scorp rising). But, he is the one who has been a sort of confessional from the very beginning. i also met someone else in between all this somewhere who also had venus in my 12th who i had a lot of weird occurences with. I really have no idea whats going on but we have crazy placements, if anyone wants to discuss further please let me know!! I would even go so far to say that they may be SPs (sociopaths); these people seem to have a DEVIL deep inside of them . It is spiritual for both people, but sometimes this is why the relationships seem to be so painful if they end. All information I have is the planet can see through the house person like cristal. Any planet in the 12th house is aiming for something beyond its grasp. Wowza:) Mars conjunct Mars and Sun conjunct sun? What activity do you have going on between your S.O. and NO MORE 12TH HOUSE PARTNERS FOR ME!! Guess that his Sun/Gem didnt like me pursuing him, but he toyed with me from time to time as he was, natch, curious about how I worked. Lol. If venus is strong and well aspected than here is deep emotional and truthworthy conection. Now i know why. Double whammies in my opinion are like gateways of energy between the two people the energy is mutual, open, and receptive- going both ways. Its like the sayingif you Love someone let them go. It's amazing. Venus in the 12 th House The Venus person functions in a manner that increases the House person's self-confidence. Infatuation can't run this deep. Someone I love very deeply has his Venus and Sun and Jupiter and Mercury in my 12th house (actually, his Venus is tightly conjunct my ascendant and as I ignore his time of birth, it can fall also in my 1st house). JavaScript is disabled. after 2/3 months later i came to know that he has girlfriend somewhere in another country. He acts like hes in love with me, he acts like he cares deeply for me, hes there for me and has even held me while I cried. Are you afraid to admit your feelings? I wouldnt say its a bad experience but Id personally avoid 12th house placements. I either lied to myself or the other was lying to me and it was very difficult and painful to deal with. I would be very interested as always in hearing about any findings or further experience or information you can conjur up! And that he doesn't know what is good for him. Mars, however, reveals how you express your sex drive and how you go about getting what you want. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding. So strange in this 12th house. In a synastry chart, this is indicative of strong affection and attraction. Hes cuddly and affectionate so that makes up for it. Its difficultto tell whats going on here. There will defo be issues and concerns regarding faithlessness, as Gemini males are often butterflies flitting from flower to flower chasing that honey, lol!!! Sign up here! Sigh.. Explore the synastry between you and your partner Composite Chart / Synastry Report Bundle. This would extend to all aspects of life from music to clothes to cars to home furnishings. He was a cancer rising, Scorpio moon, sun in Gemini in the 12th. This is because the two individuals want the same type of love relationship--they give and receive love in the same manner. Venus Conjunct Pluto Synastry. Tabitha has Venus in 12th House Pisces. You are BLESSED!! It's probably love bordering on obsession. that is my unrecognized trait of doing and having doubles 2 of this, 2 of that 2 of the same clothes articles, 2 of the same type of lifestyles, apartments . But as his Sun is caught up in my 12th House, he now and then tries to make an appearance. In a synastry chart, Venus in the 12th House can indicate a spiritual or karmic connection between the two individuals. I knew he got around a lot so I was always afraid of letting him in but Im afraid I caused all the distance. I started seeing a guy whose Venus is in my 12th house as well as his Mercury in my 12th house. Definitely feels fated/destined/telepathic/psychic. I can only state that my 12th Houser ended up pretty much devastating me perhaps it was because of his Sun/Gemini in my 12th House and my Vwnus/Sag in his 12th House. And yes, it plays out just you would think it does. I still dont know WHY that occurred . My sun, mercury, Venus and Jupiter conjunct his Pluto in the 12th. Why this could be happen? Strangely enough, I found that I had this very weird feeling of being ill for a couple days and almost felt like I might pass out, but it wasn't like it really felt like I was ill (difficult to explain.) When wondering around in someones 12th or they in yours? Especially natal charts and composite charts. My Neptune is in my 10th house in Scorpio and since I guess I'm what they would call a "Pluto person" since I have so many (5) planets in my 8th house, maybe that would mean something? Accept all plexaderm rapid reduction serum in india Manage preferences. Lol. Having someones sun in your 12th though, I dont believe it is a nice experience for the planet person, especially a fire sun. Hi Aida! Venus in your Partners 12th house The Venus person will be highly complimentative with the house person which will help increase their overall self-confidence. but they just made it private. I FEEL like he's controlling his emotions for some reason unknown to me. Am THANKFUL that it finally ended, but at the same time I value the lessons learned from our dance. You need some fire. The Sun person sees in the 11th house person someone, who they can spend pleasant time with. I just want to kiss his cheek and heal his wounds. Being with your spouse causes you to become more reflective and thoughtful. I never even considered he couldve liked me because everyone liked him and every time I think he tried to tell me I shut him down cause I didnt want to be one of his conquests. My ex-12th Houser has Venus/Cancer which made it difficult for him to open up, unless it was totally on HIS terms. How does it affect synastry when one partners personal planets land in the others 12th house? I have also experienced it as not wanting anyone to know about the relationship or not knowing where you stand. It could be a not-so-good thing if you feel vulnerable or exposed or even if you just get irritated from him. His mars is in my 12th house. This is especially true if that person's Venus is conjunct your ascendant (the more tightly conjunct, the stronger the attraction). I'm not about mind-games or double messages or emotional landmines waiting in the trenches. My Sun, Jupiter, and Mercury are in Gemini and fall in his 12th house. Designed to help you in the 1 minute it takes to read them. I then felt like the reason why it felt strange to me seemed to be that I was picking up his symptoms rather than experiencing illness myself (there was also "a fog" kind of feel to it too.) However, I am sorry for your pain, and I guess the upside is you don't need to be deceived anymore the truth is out. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). To get this straight, the "he" you're speaking of is the 12th house person? It proves that Venus is created for sharing purity, love, and spirituality in the world, when in a good state. Hi, Feeling. It's all about 12th house. He scares me sometimes because he has a violent tendency and I think he activated my 12th house because all of a sudden Im afraid to be with him for the rest of my life even though I know we were made for each other. I kept believing he felt the same as I did, but that for this reason he couldnt give into it. this was all chinese for him but for me it was the confirmation Of I had felled. Also, yes this is definitely a karmic situation. You find yourself so drawn to them, and you will find them irresistible. It just went down a long and winding road until it got out of control. I even took a sleep aid and could not sleep. Gah! Posts: 15From: united statesRegistered: Jun 2013. Obsessive, perhaps a bit and with your planets in the 8th I am sure it's not one way:). However,from reading the comments here, it seems that the planet person can be just as affected as the house person. All 12th House relationships are not bad; mine was. I feel I cannot even hide from him. I am an independent person and this is killing me emotionally, physically and psychologically! ), but at the same time on his POSITIVE/GOOD TWIN sign I recognized parts of myself that were. HOWEVER, with that new Gemini in me birthing, I also recognized very deep and troubling things within HIM that were NOT in me (thank the LORD!! Oh yes i read about that but hes not like that at all. The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. Ive cut our contact channels. Venus is the Roman counterpart to the Greek goddess, Aphrodite, and she is the female counterpart of the Roman god of war and conquest, Mars, who is also the namesake of one of the big eight planets in astrology. These are people who souls we touch and theirs ours. Thanks for sharing your experience:) Very psychic this 12th house Synastry, you really feel connected regardless if you are together or not it's like you exist on another plane 0: Very interesting article! Required fields are marked *. Venus the Goddess of love represents our love nature, our desires, our desire for the good things in life, our style, the way we act to attract, what we attract along with what we value and what we have or want. JavaScript is disabled. even when its painful between us this pull makes me want to continue with him so I did not want him to feel my pain yet he could and tried to finish things cos of itbut then we couldnt seem to leave them for more than 3 days anyway, Yep not sure what to call it a relationship, love,, obsession, infatuation, One good and beautiful thing between us which feels like the work of this placement is this soul journeying thing when we are physically together(i feel like when we are close its like we spark something off in each other which creates deep peace, ecstasy and brings us to feel our own souls thru each otherit is very healing)he says i relax him instantly. be on the look out for that cute Pisces man with an Air Moon and a Fire Mars. Nonetheless it offers us the opportunity to heal karma, overcome our fears, uncover hidden talents and gifts, and to truly see the mystical, magical spiritual world. This Venus might even feel that there's something magnetic in their partner. Her Venus is in my 12th house. The first thing to . Pretty much text book situation. I have noticed this can happen from a distance when we have Neptune 12th house synastry as well. He inspires it or mirrors it and you feel close to him because of this. Each person shares secrets, and even unconsciously. Such as unconditonal love, romance, spirituality, and discovering each others gifts and talents and putting them to use. It felt a bit cruel because he acted as if he was so I felt led on as he observed me slowly falling in love Anyway With my heavy Saturn influence ( Venus in cancer in 10th opposite Saturn + stellium in 4th house) I dont do well with non committed relationships and I felt what he did lacked integrity so I just left it there as I would not have been fulfilled. It may not display this or other websites correctly. You are using an out of date browser. I couldn't forget him until now. I would also like to know more about 12th house synastry, as I have my venus, mars and jupiter in someone's 12th house (he has no planets in there). Thanks for the 12th house information. DUBLIGATO all OVAH the place, lol!!! A recent look at someone else's synastry made me question this placement. He always wants to make sure im not hungry and that i have money on me. I love everything about astrology. But I have to work with him and Im afraid he can realize and maybe use this against me. To this some spice adds venus/neptune square. Thats an aspect of a battle between the Mars person & the 12th house person. I finally got totally turned off from him and just decided to forget him and put as much distance I could between us, physically, mentally and spiritually. His Pluto squares my Sun, Moon, Mercury, Saturn and NN. However, I still cannot get him out of my headlike there is no better man out there. And ever since we started communicating I have that strange feeling of telepathic connection between us.Is it possible that this 12th house influence works so strong with people who never met in person?We don't know each other in RL and I don't know how that is going to work out when we meet.My Pluto square his Sun/Mars kazimi conjunction, within 0 degrees. It's true that when someone touches our soul in deep connection, they could teach us a lesson. My 12th house Saturn conjunct his NN and His Chiron and Saturn conjunct my NN. It may not display this or other websites correctly. He understands me in a very deep level. With the negative aspect, the "Plutonian" personality can show jealousy and possessive tendencies toward the "Venusian" one, trying . When we met I felt like I had seen him before..we started talking online then decided to meet. because it hurts to know this about yourself, or just accept it. I also faced this same situation from my present crush whom he married with the woman same as my first ex BF criteria. At least in a romantic situation, often what happens is that the house person doesn't "feel" or has a hard time seeing the love of the Venus person. It is a great placement in synastry, of course depending on other aspects to the degree. Often, there is a distinct feeling of mistrust in these scenarios, especially on the part of the planet person. At least I know I'm not the only one who is going through this. Yes, assumptions is one thing that takes place a lot in this house. Im afraid he would stifle me and kill my spirit from the inside out. Long story short I am finally over MY 12th House love for many of the reasons posted by Morag. hello, does anyone by any chance have any experience with venus being in the 12th house within synastry? Leave no traces where you can be found, as these BAD 12th-Housers seem to be emotional vampires, and thus really get off on feeding off of YOU, your fears and trepidation. they have told me the same.one of them told me his feelings too late after i was already in a relationship and i met the other while i was in the same one. you just have to separate your spirit from them somehow, as that seems to be the deepest connection between you and them. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 Same thingsso magnetiche is plutonian, and his pluto trine my moon and sextile my venus and semisextile my sun. I don't know. This has been a dormant thread for some time but I couldn't help but post in my 2-bits on a relationship with 12th Venus. THAT is a swift ender for my 3-placement Leo (read: THE QUEEN) who became TOTALLY OFFENDED by his antics. I have found myself on a couple of occasions asking, "Why in the world did I just tell him that?" Also with another friend who showed interest and I really just wanted to remain on a friend basis. He indeed often told me that we do have a strong connection. We may still be able to figure it out. This is especially true with the Moon here but other planets as well. iRecently i have met a guy in my office whose north node conjuct my 12th house where is my moon and mars. Specific to you, the overlay situation might have some play here, but my guess is that theres more to this story. Two years ago I met a man with whom I had a one-night stand, thought of seeing only for that one night at a conference, yet continued to see each other for ten times during these two years. I have neptune (Sagitarius) in my 7th house with Gemini rising. If he is also your 12th Houser, please know that anything with him will be brief, for the most part, or there will be a series of back-and-forth connections with intervals of his ghosting you for long periods. http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=29420, http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14081. There are times I don't trust him - through no actual fault of his own, btw - and others where I just feel loved in the most basic way. Months passed, in where I was writing him letters, telling him about life, telling him about astrology. His Moon is in my 12th House, and my Venus is in HIS 12th House, thus I felt captured by him. The love for this man has boosted my spiritual development, mainly though an infinite suffering that has no end Our feelings are mutual (my Venus tightly conjunct his Neptune that can mean that I also boost his spiritual development), but for some karmic reasons we cannot be together. I can feel his worries and I always know what to say. In future, i'll try to do some research about this mysterious house according to my religion. Ha interesting this 12th house isn't it? It rules creativity, beauty, diplomacy the arts and is representative of our physical and tangible . We have our moons in each others first houses which for my cancer stellium does a lot, and he has mars and venus in my 7th house. Venus is a beneficial planet in astrology. Romance and excitement are part of this synastry contact and it can show a relationship that feels as if it is developing too fast. maybe it was some inner knowledge of how he is deep inside. I am very partnered elsewhere in my life but looked up his chart because he feels like family or someone i knew in a past life or something. It's as if its a fairytale, make belive love and Im in a dream. Or someone is misleading someone (deliberately or otherwise). His moon fall in my 5th house. I feel I just love him unconditionally no matter what, I dream of him a lot, I have fantasies too but I keep this all to myself, a secret. I would love to here anyone's feedback. :) Would also love to read about Double Whammies in the 12th if you have any info. I dream of him a lot. You have to distract yourself in as many ways as possible, do other things, meet other people. It is because mars is a harsher planet? The Venus person embodies the ideal partner of the Juno person. SYNASTRY: NORTH AND SOUTH NODE CONNECTIONS. How would Saturn and Mars play out in 12the in synastry??

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